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Family Therapy

Families are complex systems, and when one member struggles, the entire unit feels the impact. My approach to family therapy is deeply systemic, emphasizing unhelpful dynamics that have led to conflict or pain and are keeping you stuck; I believe that meaningful change occurs when we examine the attachment histories, patterns, communication cycles, and attachment dynamics that connect you to one another.

Who This Is For

Family therapy is a space for any family navigating significant shifts, including:

  • Navigating Life Transitions: Adjusting to changes in family structure, relocation, or new developmental stages.

  • Addressing Relational Strain: Repairing ruptures caused by miscommunication, unresolved conflict, or historical wounds.

  • Collaborative Relationships: Supporting parents and children (including adult children) in developing clearer, more responsive and respectful communication styles.

What We Will Explore: A Cohesive Approach to Healing

You will find that my approach to family work is consistent with the evidence-based methods I use in individual and couples therapy. By integrating Family Systems Theory with Emotionally-Focused (EFT) and CBT-based techniques, I help families move away from blame and toward collaborative understanding.

Deciphering Patterns

Much like in my work with couples, we will identify the reactionary cycles that keep your family stuck. We look at the "cycle" rather than the individual, ensuring that no one is villainized and every voice is heard.

Building Secure Attachment

We will work to identify the attachment needs beneath behavioral challenges, fostering a foundation of safety where family members can express their needs and be heard without defensiveness.

Practical Skill-Building

Utilizing CBT-based methods, we will develop tangible tools to improve communication, set healthy boundaries, and navigate conflict as a team.

Reframing Challenges

We shift the focus from "fixing" a problematic family member to nurturing the health of the entire system, helping you build a roadmap for long-term connection and resilience.

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Why Choose This Path?

My goal is to help you move from a state of reactive stress to one of intentional connection. By working together in a systemic framework, we can unlock the unique strengths already present in your family, transforming your challenges into opportunities to grow closer and more secure as a unit.

Let's Connect!

Please email me at nlmiowatherapy@gmail.com, or call (220) 215-0644 to schedule a free, initial consultation and learn more about how we can work together.

NLM Iowa Therapy and Counseling, PLLC, does not share your information with 3rd parties. Provider currently accepts BCBS and UHC Insurance as well as private pay. Not all services may be covered by insurance--please contact your specific insurance provider for information on your specific coverage and benefits. NLM Iowa Therapy and Counseling, PLLC provides telehealth counseling, therapy, and consultation services across the state of Iowa, including Des Moines, Iowa City, Coralville, Cedar Rapids, Dubuque, Waterloo, and rural communities. 

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